Just yesterday i had a detail discussion with my son and daughter that how much necessary it was to study well – to earn bread. I am so jocund that i helped them in selecting their right first priority.”
Lady/gentleman, If you have ever done so, that is so rude a of you. Education should be their first priority but to be better humans not to earn any bread or chocolates. They should choice subjects (or anything) in which they are interested and whom they love. Otherwise, because of lack of interest in “your” (chosen) bread-earning-subject, they will end up achieving NOTHING.
So now question is how you can rightly help your child in building up a healthy, happy, confident, gregarious, and full-of-breads future. Well… Just teach them one thing and your whole problem will be solved. Teach your kids to love themselves. And for that, it is very much necessary that you should love yourself. If, as Mother/Father, we aren’t going to take care of yourself, while are taking care of everybody & everything else very well, we are going to teach your kid that love comes from the outside &/or just comes through “doing” for others, which is absolutely malefactor.
Modeling Self-love means that you should show/tell your kids that you, as adult parents, live your lives first and fully. Tell them that you do take care of your time, you are responsible, organized, healthy & passionate about who you are in the world; you work hard & make quality time for your friends, family & kids; but at same time you do something for yourself too. Kids watch. Kids do what you do, and they do very little of what you SAY to them. Actually they follow in your footstep. If you are not happy with what you see in your children, in terms of attitude, responsibility & being grateful, then you have to look deeply at yourself & what you are modeling for them. They would be definitely in stress then; which may be owing to some bread-earning-issues which you have always wanted them to focus upon. Not good!!!
“Self-love” is the best gift you can give to your kid. Teach him that it is ok to be bit stupid sometimes. It is ok to be not perfect every time. It is ok to ask questions again and again if he/she doesn’t get anything. It is okay to get bash sometimes; because sometimes through bashing we learn some very important lessons of life. It is to cry his/her heart out sometimes. Tell them tears are the sign of bravely not cowardice; because not everybody dare to show their tears to others. Tell them it is okay to be and do whatever they want sometimes.
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Now let’s talk about outer beauty. Is it necessary? Should you teach about this to your kid? Well… Yes, yes, yes! I mean what is wrong in it.
Be the pioneer for your kid. Take a very good care of his/her hair – as it is the most favorite part of all humans. For this, oil her/his hair thrice a week. This will make hair more exquisite. Visit www.superbabyonline.com/baby-hair-growth-the-secret-to-healthy-hair-0-5-yrs/ for some more how-to-take-care-of-your-kid-hair fantastic tips. Plus, buy some fancy dresses for your kid. Take him/her to shop, give him/her budget, and let him/her choice. This will increase his/her confidence and teach how to live with that budget. Moreover, gift him/her his/her favorite bicycle etc. For this, visit www.consumeressentials.com. They review the 10 best. Hence, will help you in choosing the best bicycle for your kid. And we accept this will be bit burden-full for your wallet, but trust us, this is how they will realize the worth of a fit body. Bicycling will be the first for this…
So love yourself; this is how your kids will love themselves.
Have a happy and lovely life! 🙂